Elderlove Living Care Centre (Sg.Long)

A few days after the mother's fracture operation, the caregiver in the family was her daughter. Due to lack of energy and other reasons, she wanted to allow her mother to get more professional care. She sought the nursing home with her mother's consent, and finally admitted to this nursing home. During the epidemic, this nursing home will first check the medical records of the applicants to confirm whether the hospital is capable of taking care of them, and if possible, will be tested for new coronary pneumonia. My mother finally passed the review of two levels and moved here. Perhaps it is due to the epidemic. The hospital prohibits frequent visits. It is almost only once a week. At the beginning, you can take daily necessities to the residents more than once. Here comes the point, because my mother is not sure whether she has dementia or emotional instability caused by illness. The day after we moved in, we received news that she would scold the staff there at night and call frequently. They are noisy and lose things. This made us very upset, and we began to think about whether we should continue to let our mother live in a place that is unfamiliar and cannot be visited frequently. We often dial the phone and our mother does not answer it. In this case, we can only wait for her to call back or answer the phone again. We couldn't see her at all, which made us really hesitate to keep her there. We also began to think about other ways to help take care of our mother, such as looking for private nursing and so on. The next day, we also received a message from the caregiver, saying that my mother had been asking for many things. At the moment, we feel that the caregivers are also very hard. But during this short period of time, when my mother talked to her daughters living in different areas, she always said angrily that her wound was painful, but they were reluctant to help or even ignored it when she asked for help. This made her even say things like she wanted to die. We can only be half-believing what the mother who is emotionally out of control said, because we really have no way of confirming the truth, thinking that maybe the mother's attitude makes people unwelcome. But in the only video call with a successful connection, I did hear my mother calling tolong and sakit loudly in Malay (the caregiver is a Malay), but it took more than 5 minutes before someone came late. I greeted me a few words on the phone, and then tilted my mother's hospital bed. My mother finally looked a little relieved and closed her eyes to rest. I saw my mother had a rest, and I just hung up and went back to work. Unexpectedly, that was my last phone call with her. After our call, although the sisters have spoken with their mother one after another, the mother always seems to express that she feels deep helplessness and fear of living there, and clamoring to go home. The nursing home also recommends whether to give the mother drugs that are calmed by a doctor. We are still in contact with the private care and cannot immediately move the mother out of the nursing home. Therefore, we want to say that we should let this method stabilize the mother’s emotions, and avoid her emotions. Everyone dared not take care of her. As a result, the next day after taking the medication, my mother felt that her mood was normal at noon, and we completed the mother’s withdrawal procedure that day, and wanted to take her home the next day. But towards the evening, the hospital suddenly said that his mother had difficulty breathing and was sent to the hospital. Later, my mother died of acute diabetes complications after resisting it for almost two days. The whole story is over. What I want to tell everyone who is looking for a nursing home is that I am not blaming the blame, after all, I cannot trace the truth back. But everyone must really understand that the nursing home does not necessarily allow you to keep track of the situation of your family, and you will not know how they will be treated. It is impossible to verify whether there is enough food, whether the drug is administered on time, and how the occupant will be treated when the occupant does not obey. Especially if your family is likely to make the wrong expression to you, or have any cognitive disorders in any aspect. Please think carefully before entering the nursing home, especially during the epidemic. If I can take care of it at home, I think it should be the most reassuring and comforting for my family. Unfamiliar places may be too cruel for sick elderly people, and how do you make sure that the hospital can handle the illness of your family members and give them proper care? I feel that it is the most reliable to see it with my own eyes. Time cannot come again, and it is too late for us to regret. But I sincerely hope that everyone can confirm that there is no problem. The family can take care of themselves at a minimum, and the family can keep in touch with you, and you can trust the hospital in the end before making the decision to apply for admission. The above is provided for your reference. If your family has ever stayed in this nursing home, you have a high evaluation, and I hope you can share your experience at that time and the situation after your family stayed here. I wish you all safety and health, and also have a positive, optimistic and cautious attitude to make the best arrangements for those in need of care at home. ?